Holy, Holy, Holy

"Therefore, as you have received Christ Jesus the Lord, walk in Him, rooted and built up in Him and established in the faith, just as you were taught, overflowing with gratitude."  Colossians 2:6-7

It's hard to accept sometimes that life isn't always easy. We want it to be; we want it to be smooth sailing. But the reality is...it's not. We will be tested and have trials and hang ups. I am learning that it's what we do in those hardships and how we lean on God that matters.

The devotional today focuses on our transformation in Christ when we become a Christian. Our pastor preaches on this quite a bit. When you accept Jesus as your Savior, your life will change. The Holy Spirit in us will work in us to change old habits and characteristics from our old self. We will need to change and be transformed and the spirit will help us to become holy.

We can view our marriage in the same way. When we become married and become one, we are transformed.
"Marriage is not just to make you happy by fulfilling all of your needs. Marriage is to make you holy by refining you through a process of transformation."  (Smith, 40)

I think in order for our marriages to be successful, God has to be the third person in it. He can't just be present...He has to be a partner.

Question to ponder:
How do you respond to trials and hardships when they arise in your marriage and life? For me, I try my best to lean heavily on God and I working on trusting Him completely.

Until next time, have a great day!

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